Did you know that no matter what we do, how we act, or what we say, there are five human responses to any action? Some people are going to love us, some will hate us, others may like or dislike us, and some are going not going to even care (be in neutrality). When we base our actions on trying to obtain a like or love response, we pick up the dark arrow of expectations.
To break this dark arrow, all we have to do is pick up the Light Arrow of Self-Love. When we love ourselves, we develop self-confidence in who we are, what we do, and what we say to the extent that any response we receive from others will not initiate our pretender voices, disrupt our balance, or propel us to pick up the dark arrows again. With Self-Love, we develop and maintain a strong commander voice that reminds us of our beauty, strength, wisdom, shining, and all our other amazing aspects!