As we choose the light, centered within our own circle and aligned with all forms of all things, the 2nd Light Arrow we pick up is Self-Appreciation.
Once we choose to become Self-Aware (the 1st Light Arrow), we can create a strong internal concept of self. Picking up the 2nd Light Arrow of Self-Appreciation provides a a concept of Self-Worth where we find value inside our self. When we value and appreciate who we are in our uniqueness and individuality, we break the dark arrow of dependencies. We no longer have the strong externally based wants that placed in the victim, persecutor, rescuer triangle. We stand strong in our own circle, knowing our bottom lines, maintaining agreements with our self first, and then negotiating clear agreements with others.